So, when a guy calls you “chick,” it’s kind of like he’s using a slang term to refer to you. It’s not necessarily a bad thing, but it’s also not the most respectful way to address someone, especially if you’re not close friends or if you prefer being called something else.
Sometimes guys might use “chick” casually without realizing it can come off as a bit dismissive or even objectifying. It’s like they’re trying to be cool or casual, but they might not realize it could make you feel uncomfortable or less valued.
If a guy you’re not close to is calling you “chick” and it bothers you, it’s totally okay to let him know. You can just say something like, “Hey, I’d prefer if you called me by my name,” or whatever nickname you like.
But if it’s a guy you’re close with and you don’t mind the term, then it might just be his way of being friendly or playful. Context really matters here.
Overall, just trust your gut and don’t be afraid to speak up if something doesn’t sit right with you. You deserve to be treated with respect, whether it’s by a guy or anyone else!
Comebacks When A Guy Calls you Chick
1. I’m not sure where you got that idea, but my name works just fine.
This comeback politely redirects the conversation back to using your name instead of the term “chick.”
2. If you’re trying to impress me, calling me ‘chick’ isn’t the way to do it.
This comeback subtly challenges the guy’s choice of words and suggests that respectful behavior is more impressive.
3. Do I look like a bird to you? Last time I checked, I’m human.
This comeback uses humor to highlight the absurdity of being called a “chick” and emphasizes your humanity.
4. I didn’t know we were in a barnyard. Let’s stick to human terms, shall we?
This comeback playfully suggests that the term “chick” belongs in a barnyard, not in conversation with you.
5. I’ll take ‘chick’ as a compliment if you take ‘rooster’ as one too.
This comeback humorously turns the tables by suggesting that the guy wouldn’t appreciate being called a male bird either.
6. I’m not a side dish. Call me by my name.
This comeback asserts your individuality and implies that being called “chick” reduces you to a lesser status.
7. I’m not here to be labeled. Use my name or don’t bother.
This comeback sets a boundary by refusing to accept being labeled with a term like “chick.”
8. I’ll be ‘chick’ when you’re ‘dude.’ Deal?”
This comeback suggests reciprocity by playfully implying that if the guy insists on using slang, you’ll do the same.
9. I’m not a character in a movie. Let’s keep it real with names, okay?
This comeback emphasizes the importance of authenticity and suggests that using your name is more genuine than using a slang term.
10. “Calling me ‘chick’ won’t fly. Use my name, please.
This comeback uses a pun to humorously suggest that the term “chick” isn’t acceptable and redirects the conversation to using your name.
11. I prefer being called [Your Name].
This comeback is straightforward and assertive. It lets the guy know your preference without being confrontational.
12. Is ‘chick’ the best you’ve got?
This comeback can playfully challenge the guy’s choice of words, implying that you expect better from him.
13. Are we in the 1950s? ‘Cause I’m not your ‘chick’.
This comeback humorously points out the outdated nature of the term and asserts your independence.
14. I’m not a baby bird, so ‘chick’ doesn’t quite fit.
This comeback uses a playful analogy to suggest that the term is infantilizing and doesn’t suit you.
15. I have a name, you know. It’s not ‘chick’.
This comeback emphasizes the importance of using your name and highlights the impersonal nature of the term “chick.”
16. Did you mean to say ‘woman’? That’s more accurate.
This comeback redirects the guy’s choice of words towards a more respectful and accurate term.
17. I’m more than just a label like ‘chick.’ Try again.
This comeback challenges the guy to see you as a complex individual rather than reducing you to a simple label.
18. I prefer being treated with respect, not called names.
This comeback sets a boundary by asserting your right to be treated respectfully.
19. I didn’t realize we were on a farm. Call me by my name, please.
This comeback uses humor to suggest that the term “chick” belongs on a farm, not in conversation with you.
20. You must be confused. I’m not a baby chicken.
This comeback uses a lighthearted tone to point out the absurdity of being called a “chick” and implies that the guy might have made a mistake.
As a married wife, founder, and editor of SpouseMag.com – these guides are based on my own personal experiences, observations, research and insights. I am transparent about being inspired by the life and work of the two greatest experts in the relationship space – Dr. John and Julia Gottman, and Harville and Helen. They two are some of the strongest couples, researchers, authors, and counselors when it comes to marriage and relationships. My advice and guides are based on my insights and research, and they are not an alternative to professional advice.
