If a guy comes up to you saying he’s attracted to you in a sexual way, it’s essential to trust your gut and set boundaries that make you feel safe and respected.
First off, it’s totally okay to feel a mix of emotions when someone says this to you. Maybe you feel flattered, maybe you’re uncomfortable, or maybe even a bit scared. Whatever you’re feeling, it’s valid.
Here’s the deal: You deserve to be with someone who respects you and treats you right. If this guy is making you feel uneasy or crossing boundaries, it’s important to speak up.
You can simply say something like, “I appreciate your honesty, but I’m not comfortable talking about that kind of stuff,” or “I’m not interested in that kind of relationship.”
Your feelings matter, and anyone worth your time will understand and respect your boundaries.
1. The Classic Tease:
“Oh, really now? I must say, I’m quite the catch.”
2. The Mysterious Response:
“Well, you’ll have to work a little harder to uncover all my secrets.”
3. The Confidence Booster:
“I’m glad you noticed. It takes someone with great taste to recognize quality.”
4. The Playful Banter:
“Is that so? Well, you’ll have to keep up if you want to keep my attention.”
5. The Flirty Challenge:
“Careful now, you might not be able to handle all this sass.”
6. The Empowerment Move:
“I appreciate the honesty. But just remember, I’m not here to fulfill your fantasies.”
7. The Coy Reply:
“Oh, you think so? Tell me more about what you find attractive.”
8. The Redirect:
“Interesting. Let’s focus on getting to know each other better first.”
9. The Witty Retort:
“Well, I’m glad I can still turn heads. But actions speak louder than words, don’t they?”
10. The Flirty Dodge:
“You’re not the only one with eyes, you know.”
11. The Confident Brush-off:
“Thanks for the compliment, but I’m more than just a pretty face.”
12. The Challenge Accepted:
“Bold move. Let’s see if you can keep up with me.”
13. The Curious Response:
“Hmm, intrigued. What exactly are you attracted to?”
14. The Flirty Flattery:
“Well, you certainly know how to make a girl feel special.”
15. The Smooth Redirect:
“I’m flattered, but let’s save the compliments for when you really impress me.”
16. The Bold Challenge:
“Are you brave enough to handle all this charm?”
17. The Sweet Tease:
“Aw, I’m blushing. Keep it up, you might just win me over.”
18. The Assertive Response:
“Good to know. But remember, respect is the ultimate turn-on.”
19. The Intrigued Counter:
“Interesting choice of words. Care to elaborate?”
20. The Confident Acknowledgment:
“Well, I can’t say I’m surprised. But let’s see if you can keep up with me.”
21. The Playful Challenge:
“Oh, you’re attracted to me? Let’s see if you can handle all this charm and wit.”
22. The Elegant Deflection:
“Thank you for your honesty. Now, let’s see if you can engage my mind as much as my looks.”
23. The Sincere Response:
“I appreciate your honesty. Let’s see where this conversation takes us.”
24. The Flirty Assurance:
“Well, you’re not alone in that sentiment. But remember, I’m not easy to impress.”
25. The Confident Flirt:
“Well, I’m glad you finally noticed. But be warned, I can be quite irresistible.”
26. The Humorous Retort:
“Oh, you’re attracted to me? Quick, someone call the fire department, things are about to get hot.”
27. The Bold Invitation:
“Well, now that we’ve got that out of the way, how about we take this conversation to the next level?”
28. The Flirty Challenge:
“Oh, really? Well, let’s see if you can keep up with my level of flirtation.”
29. The Mysterious Invitation:
“You’re attracted to me? Maybe you’ll get to uncover more mysteries as we get to know each other.”
30. The Confident Assertion:
“I’m glad you noticed. But remember, I’m not just eye candy—I’m the whole package.”
31. The Flirty Banter:
“Well, it’s about time you admitted it. Now, let’s see if you can handle this level of charm.”
32. The Assertive Redirect:
“Thanks for the compliment, but let’s keep the focus on getting to know each other for now.”
33. The Sassy Response:
“Oh, you find me sexually attractive? Looks like someone has good taste after all.”
34. The Charming Deflection:
“Well, I’m flattered. But let’s see if you can impress me beyond just words.”
35. The Playful Challenge:
“Attraction is just the beginning. Let’s see if you have what it takes to keep me interested.”
36. The Curious Inquiry:
“Interesting. What is it about me that caught your eye?”
37. The Flirty Assurance:
“You’re attracted to me? Well, get in line—I’ve got plenty more where that came from.”
38. The Confident Flirtation:
“Well, I must say, your taste is impeccable. But can you handle the heat?”
39. The Bold Acknowledgment:
“Finally, someone who appreciates my allure. Now, let’s see if you can handle it.”
40. The Playful Challenge:
“You find me sexually attractive? Better be prepared to handle all the sparks flying between us.”
41. The Complimentary Banter:
“Well, I must say, you’ve got good taste. But can you handle a girl like me?”
42. The Flirty Retort:
“Oh, you think so? Well, I’m not just eye candy—I’ve got brains and beauty.”
43. The Confident Reassurance:
“I’m glad you find me attractive. Just remember, I’m not here to play games.”
44. The Playful Challenge:
“You’re attracted to me? Well, get ready for a wild ride.”
45. The Assertive Redirect:
“Thanks for the compliment, but let’s focus on getting to know each other beyond just physical attraction.”
46. The Curious Inquiry:
“Interesting. What exactly about me caught your attention?”
47. The Flirty Assurance:
“You’re attracted to me? Well, buckle up, because things are about to get interesting.”
48. The Confident Acknowledgment:
“Well, I can’t say I’m surprised. But let’s see if you can keep up with me.”
49. The Witty Banter:
“Oh, you’re attracted to me? Well, you have good taste, I’ll give you that.”
50. The Playful Challenge:
“You find me sexually attractive? Better be prepared to keep up with my level of charm.”
51. The Assertive Redirect:
“Thanks for the compliment, but let’s focus on building a connection first.”
52. The Curious Inquiry:
“I’m intrigued. What made you realize you’re attracted to me?”
53. The Flirty Assurance:
“Well, you’re not the first to find me irresistible. But can you handle it?”
54. The Confident Acknowledgment:
“I appreciate the compliment. Just remember, I’m not just a pretty face.”
55. The Playful Challenge:
“You’re attracted to me? Well, let’s see if you can handle all this charm and wit.”
56. The Assertive Redirect:
“Thanks for the honesty. Let’s focus on getting to know each other beyond physical attraction.”
57. The Curious Inquiry:
“Interesting. What specifically about me caught your eye?”
58. The Flirty Assurance:
“Well, lucky for you, I’m even more captivating up close.”
59. The Confident Acknowledgment:
“I’m glad you noticed. Now, let’s see if you can keep up with me.”
60. The Playful Challenge:
“You’re attracted to me? That’s just the beginning. Let’s see if you can handle the rest.”
61. The Assertive Redirect:
“Thanks for the compliment, but I’m more interested in meaningful connections.”
62. The Curious Inquiry:
“Hmm, intrigued. What sparked your attraction?”
63. The Flirty Assurance:
“Well, you’re not alone in that sentiment. But can you handle all this charisma?”
64. The Confident Acknowledgment:
“I’m flattered. Now, let’s see if you can keep up with me.”
65. The Playful Challenge:
“You’re attracted to me? Brace yourself, things are about to get interesting.”
66. The Assertive Redirect:
“Thanks, but let’s focus on getting to know each other’s personalities first.”
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